Expectations of Others

As for #3, what we mean by this is that when you are out there networking, talking with people, you might be fortunate to get lead on some one or some bit of information that will be helpful to your job search. Quite often, people have a tendency to say "let me give so-and-so a call" or "let me see if I have that file in my office." At times, people simply don't have the time to fulfill their offer. This is where you need to show appreciation for what they have shared and offer to do the leg work. Feel free to say, "Well, I appreciate that. I know you are busy these days. Would it be appropriate for me to call Mary Jones? Do you think she would take my call?" Or if it's information, i.e., paperwork, a website, a directory, don't leave the task of putting it together on the person who has suggested it. You could say, "If you have that file at the office, why don't I stop by and get it," or "That website is a great idea. Why don't we see if I can find it."